There
was a time when travel meant airports, passports, departure gates. It meant the
anticipation of somewhere unknown and the quiet excitement of stepping into a
different world. Today, travel often begins with something much simpler: the
turn of a key in an old Mercedes-Benz, the sound of its engine settling into
rhythm, and a short drive down familiar streets in Pretoria.
Over
the past decade, distance has not always been available to us. Rising living
costs, the realities of working remotely in South Africa, and the limitations
of an aging vehicle have meant that long journeys have often remained out of
reach. Apart from my work on an oilfield in Iraq and a brief visit to Ajman in
the United Arab Emirates, most of our travel has unfolded within a much smaller
radius.
And
yet, within that radius, life has quietly continued to offer places worth
discovering.
Travel, I have learned, is not always about distance. Sometimes it is about depth.

Camel-riding on Ajman beach, Ajman, UAE 
Camel-riding, Ajman, 2018
Pretoria Boeremark (Farmers Market): where continuity begins before sunrise
Some of
our most meaningful journeys begin in darkness, long before the city fully
wakes, at the Pretoria Boeremark.
The
Boeremark is widely regarded as one of Pretoria’s most beloved farmers markets,
known for its early morning hours, traditional farm foods, and strong community
atmosphere. Rooted deeply in Afrikaner agricultural heritage, it represents
continuity with a slower, older rhythm of life.
Arriving
between 5 and 6 in the morning, you immediately notice the smell of wood fires
and fresh coffee cutting through the cold air. Vendors prepare food in quiet
concentration. People greet one another with familiarity. The market is alive,
but not chaotic—busy in a way that feels purposeful and grounded.
We walk
past stalls selling vetkoek filled with mince, pannekoek dusted with cinnamon
sugar, sosaties grilled over open flames, farm breads, fresh cheeses, pap and
kaiings, rusks, kombucha drinks, cappuccinos, and homemade desserts. There are
even international touches—Asian dishes, Indian foods, and Russian treats—quiet
reminders of how the world intersects in unexpected places.
Standing
there, holding a warm coffee while the sun begins its slow rise, you feel
something rare: continuity. Stability. The quiet reassurance that life
continues forward.

Cinnamon sticks, Pretoria Boeremark 
Henry (me) and Ansu (my wife) at the Boeremark 
vetkoek stall at the Boeremark
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| 'Blikbekers' (tin cups) for sale |
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| Spices |
Safari Garden Centre: a sanctuary hidden in plain sight
Another
place that offers quiet restoration is the Safari Garden Centre, located
in Pretoria East.
More
than a commercial nursery, it functions as a living ecosystem. Indigenous
plants, tall trees, and carefully designed walkways create a space where nature
reasserts its presence. Small waterfalls provide constant background sound.
Birds move freely overhead.
Two
tame parrots, Anna and Jason, have become part of the centre’s identity, calmly
observing visitors and occasionally engaging with them.
Garden
centres like this exist not just to sell plants, but to preserve small pockets
of ecological calm within urban environments. They offer psychological relief
as much as horticultural value.
We
usually keep things simple there. A soft serve ice cream. A slow walk. No
urgency.
It is
enough.

Ansu and I at Safari Garden centre 
Jason, one of the parrots that one can engage with at Safari 
Elephant statue at safari 
Tuckshop where one can buy soft serve ice-cream
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| Jason and I at Safari |
Afro-Boer: where heritage and calm still exist
The Afro-Boer
Restaurant, established in 2013 in Lynnwood, has become one of Pretoria’s
most respected baker’s cafés. It has received national recognition for
preserving and modernizing traditional Afrikaner culinary heritage while
creating a peaceful farm-style environment.
Its
outdoor seating, surrounded by gardens and open space, creates a natural sense
of calm. Chickens walk freely between tables. Meals unfold slowly.
Traditional
dishes like the Boereboepie breakfast reflect South Africa’s agricultural
roots—simple, nourishing, and grounded.
Afro-Boer
reminds you that heritage is not something abstract. It lives in spaces, in
food, and in quiet environments where time slows down.

Enjoying Herbal tea from Malawi at Afroboer restaurant 
Afroboer main restaurant 
Garden section
Cullinan: distance measured in atmosphere, not kilometers
Before
losing my Toyota Corolla in 2016, we were able to travel further to Cullinan,
a historic mining town east of Pretoria.
Cullinan
is internationally known as the site where the Cullinan Diamond—the largest
gem-quality diamond ever discovered—was found in 1905. Today, the town
preserves its mining heritage through museums, architecture, and tourism
districts.
We
visited pancake restaurants serving milk tart-filled pancakes, walked through
historic streets, and spent time in Stavros’ Greek restaurant, where
hospitality felt genuine and unforced.
Cullinan
was not far geographically. But psychologically, it created distance from
routine.
Distance
enough to breathe differently.

Ansu enjoying ice-cream in the tourist section of Cullinan 
Greek restaurant, owned by Stavros, in the tourist section of Cullinan 
Ansu at Pancake restaurant in Cullinan with my red Toyota in the background 
Restaurant and coffee bar in tourist section of Cullinan
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| Stavros' blind cat |
Sooper Eats: stability through consistency
Closer
to home, Sooper Eats has become part of our regular rhythm.
Run by
Mark, whose hospitality defines the environment, it offers something simple but
powerful: reliability.
The
meals—steak, burgers, pasta, lasagna, oven-baked pizzas—are clean, affordable,
and consistent. Mark greets guests warmly, creating an environment where you
feel recognized and welcome.
Consistency,
over time, becomes stability.
And stability becomes its own form of travel—movement not through geography, but through continuity.

Bicycle as interior decoration feature inside Sooper Restaurant. Mark, the owner loves cycling. 
Outside seating area 
One of many cappuccinos we have enjoyed at Sooper
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| Fig Cheesecake |
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| Ansu and I enjoying the afternoon out at Sooper |
Pretoria National Botanical Gardens: an urban oasis
Just
two kilometers from our home lie the Pretoria National Botanical Gardens,
a 76-hectare conservation area established in 1946 and now managed by the South
African National Biodiversity Institute.
The
gardens serve both scientific and public purposes, preserving indigenous plant
ecosystems while providing accessible natural environments within the city.
After
teaching online for hours in my small Nutec garden office, I drive there and
walk along the designated trails. These paths move through grasslands,
indigenous forest areas, and quiet ecological corridors.
There
is no urgency there.
No
deadlines.
No
screens.
These
walks restore balance. They create separation between work and life. They
remind me that life exists beyond productivity.

Giant metal insect mounted on a tree near the entrance 
One of the many animal residents of the garden 
Morning Garden picnic 
walking trail scenery 
Spring time
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| The view of Silverton from the hill on one of the walking trails |
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| Sunset view from the Deck Restaurant in the Botanical Gardens |
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| Dry allow during winter |
Teaching and traveling simultaneously
Most
evenings, I teach English online from my small garden office.
Through
my students, I travel mentally across continents. I speak with people living in
Russia, Serbia, Poland, Portugal, Cyprus, Turkey, Germany, the Netherlands,
Austria, the United Kingdom, the United States, Kazakhstan, Thailand, Japan,
Malaysia, Croatia, Montenegro, Mauritius, and the Maldives.
Through
their stories, I imagine their cities, their winters, their coastlines.
Travel
continues—not physically, but mentally.
Each
lesson becomes a small journey.

Our kitty, Klouye, constant companion and adventure seeker
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| Our garden, for exercise and calm |
Klein Kariba: a true bushveld retreat
One of
the few places that truly felt like physical travel again was ATKV Klein
Kariba, located in the Waterberg region near Bela-Bela.
Nestled
within bushveld hills and natural landscapes, the resort offers nature trails,
accommodation, and recreational facilities designed to create rest and
immersion in nature.
The air
feels different there. The pace slows naturally.
But
reaching it required patience. The old Mercedes sometimes overheated. We
stopped. Waited. Continued.
Each
kilometer carried meaning.
Travel
became an act of perseverance.

Njala, some of the wildlife at Klein Kariba
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| Main lake at entrance |
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| Restaurant and views of lake and waterfall |
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| Recreational lake at the entrance |
Coffee, sunset drives, and small dignities
Sometimes
travel is nothing more than coffee at Plato.
Sometimes
it is a sunset drive.
Sometimes
it is simply continuing forward.
In
South Africa, where many face profound hardship, even stability becomes
meaningful.

Enjoying a Plato Coffee Freezo on one of our afternoon drives 
Colbyn Gholf range where we enjoyed many outings
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| Ansu enjoying a break at Lynnridge mall |
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| Out for a walk in Silverton, where I live, during Covid |
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| Trying on a new hat during a shopping trip |
Traveling deep
Travel is not only distance.
It is attention.
It is awareness.
When you cannot travel far, you learn to travel deep.
And in doing so, you discover that the world was never entirely out of reach.
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| Old tractor on display at Farm Inn which we frequented until it close |
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| Donkey car at Farm Inn |



















